The balance of my
child's two languages seems to be shifting. How can I ensure one
language doesn't
disappear?
It
is often the case that the strengths of a person's two languages tend to
vary across time. A child may find it easier to speak English in some
circumstances, Spanish in others and this may vary as practice and
experience change. Sometimes the shift will be large. A child may stop
speaking one of their languages while still being able to understand
that language. Some children move towards speaking the majority language
or their dominant language more and more, their minority language or
less dominant language less and less. This is a naturally worrying event
for many parents. It is often impossible and usually unwise to compel a
child to speak a language. Sometimes, bilingual parents try to achieve
conformity without conviction. When children are younger, one possible
solution is to extend the range of language experiences in their less
preferred language, for example, staying with grandparents or cousins,
visits to enjoyable cultural festivals, a renewal in the language
materials and other language stimuli in the home for that weaker
language (e.g. videos, pop records, the visits of cousins). If both
parents read to, or listen to the child reading before bedtime, or if
the language of family conversation at the meal table is manipulated to
advantage, then subtly the language balance of the home my be
readjusted. Nevertheless, such children acquiring two languages early,
will usually be able to communicate in both languages, often as well as
they would communicate in one language.
SOURCE : A PARENTS'
AND TEACHERS' GUIDE TO
BILINGUALISM